Noble is the concept of being a peaceful and content person. It is difficult in these days of social unrest and financial uncertainties. We lose sight of what is important trying to understand what is going on, so we soak into social media trying show everyone that our life is perfect. We just have to stay focused on what is real and important. This is how to begin peace preservation.
In work scenarios, it does become difficult to maintain peace. It is possible if you understand why you must work. We work to maintain a lifestyle and provide support. This should give you a sense of peace knowing you can be of value to yourself and family. To remind you of what is more important, put a picture of something that will motivate you. I keep a picture of my sons near me. It’s a reminder to me there is life after work. It’s a life I love and protect passionately.
My husband and I are together most of the time. I don’t mean when it’s possible. I mean before work, after work, weekends, and every waking moment we can be together. We have become each other’s comfort and support. Why is this relevant? As a team we have established code words, looks and gestures, to leave events that become overwhelming and chaotic. We also make an exit plan before we even arrive to an event. We never question why. We have just established a mindset that our personal space and need for peace is more important than the possibility of hurt feelings.
I challenge everyone find their perfect peace. Live, laugh, and be happy in the moment. Never allow anyone to dictate what your peace and happiness should be. It is more important for your success, sanity and health to have peace within that you can understand.
Juanita Espino B.S. Comm., M.A.Ed.
Communications Consultant and Professional Advisor